Never Belittle A Penis (Plus: Clitoris Q&A)

Dear Duana, My fear of not being able to satisfy my wife is causing problems with my erections. I am in my mid-forties and have been with my wife for 16 years now. Very early on in the relationship I read something in a journal of hers I wish I could wipe from my memory banks regarding my penis size.

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Meet The Clitoris: Or, how to stop worrying and start loving

Wise Readers, men bombard me with letters that essentially say, “My size is [insert normal dimensions here], and I am scared I cannot satisfy [my wife/lover/anyone, ever].” The underlying questions are always the same: Can I satisfy a woman? Am I Enough? Having looked at these questions from every angle, I can give you a confident answer. But first you need to shift the focus from your sex organs to hers…

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Q&A from "The How To Say No Primer"

Wise Readers, Should sixth-graders even be allowed to attend dances? Won’t it lead to…sex? What are the risk factors for early sex, anyway—and what can you do to prevent that at your house? Does the community have to go along, or can you go it alone? Read on!

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The How To Say No Primer (how to say no to a boy who asks you to the dance)

Mom! You know that boy who waves to me all the time and talks to me at my locker? He asked me to the dance today, and the dance is still two weeks off! I said yes! But I think I want to go with friends to the next one. How would I say no?

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Q&A from "I Can't Make You Love Me...Or Can I?"

Wise Readers, Is love a choice~but only for women? Why are 100% of the ‘how can I make [name] love me’ letters from women? Should you marry someone who loves you more than you love them? And how can men simultaneously love longest…but get re-involved quickest? Read on!

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