Folk Wisdom: Your sex life survey: Quantity & Quality

Wise Readers,

It’s only natural to be curious about others’ sex lives.  The quick 7-item questionnaire at this link (http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/NCBDGPX ) is about sexual quantity and quality.  As always, it’s anonymous—I won’t know who you are unless you tell me, and even if you tell me, your name will be altered or deleted so that nobody else knows. Results will be published next week, along with results per the social science. Thank you!

Cheers,
Duana

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Passionate Kisses: Too much to ask?

Dear Duana, Meg and I have been married 17 years, but we’ve never had a spark when we’ve kissed—even from day one. There’s a lack of intimacy in it for me that’s troubling as I reach this middle period of my life and marriage. So my questions are, does the lack of passion in our kissing mean anything? Or should it be enough to have values and interests in common? Bart

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