Never Belittle A Penis (Plus: Clitoris Q&A)

Dear Duana, My fear of not being able to satisfy my wife is causing problems with my erections. I am in my mid-forties and have been with my wife for 16 years now. Very early on in the relationship I read something in a journal of hers I wish I could wipe from my memory banks regarding my penis size.

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Meet The Clitoris: Or, how to stop worrying and start loving

Wise Readers, men bombard me with letters that essentially say, “My size is [insert normal dimensions here], and I am scared I cannot satisfy [my wife/lover/anyone, ever].” The underlying questions are always the same: Can I satisfy a woman? Am I Enough? Having looked at these questions from every angle, I can give you a confident answer. But first you need to shift the focus from your sex organs to hers…

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Q&A from "The How To Say No Primer"

Wise Readers, Should sixth-graders even be allowed to attend dances? Won’t it lead to…sex? What are the risk factors for early sex, anyway—and what can you do to prevent that at your house? Does the community have to go along, or can you go it alone? Read on!

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Bullcrit: Fifty Shades Of Gr, um...Evolutionary Psychology

Dear Duana, I’d like to hear you discuss a current oddity. Why has the book Fifty Shades of Grey reached such a crest of popularity? It’s badly written, the characters—such as they are—are unsympathetic, and the plot pushes women into a role we’ve spent centuries changing. The heroine is clueless, a willing victim to a hero who is cruel, scarred and without a single redeeming virtue. Yet the female readers of this mishmash are wild about it and have made it an ongoing best seller. I’d like your opinion on why that has happened and if the book’s popularity does say something about the women of today.

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Q&A from "Exercise: This is a pubic service announcement"

Wise Readers, Do you have to lose weight to get the sexual and other benefits of a half-hour’s daily walk/workout? What’s a skinny fat person? Why does why we exercise—our motivator—matter, and how can you tap into the most effective motivator? And losing weight’s the easy part. How do you *keep* it off? Read on!

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