Dear Duana, I was the victim of abuse as a child, and now I’m engaged to the only man I’ve ever really trusted. The best colleges for our respective fields are a six-hour drive apart….they say absence makes the heart grow fonder and if it’s meant to be, it’ll work out however great the distance. What do you think? Dear Viv, Absence does make the heart grow fonder~from one Friday night to the next, early in courtship. But for most couples most of the time, when a move apart is in the offing once the decision to be together has been made, another adage holds sway: out of sight, out of mind. And even when LDR’s succeed they often fail. Here’s why, and what to do about it.
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