Wednesday
Jan282015
The Hidden Reason She Wants Him To Pay For Dinner
Wise Readers,
Many women want the guy to buy dinner~and many feel awkward about wanting that. Where does this desire come from, and why does it actually work to the advantage of long-term relationships for both sexes?
Read on at this guest piece at eHarmony: http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/dating-advice-for-you/why-guys-should-pay-for-dinner/#.VMkEe1qRM5R
Cheers,
Duana
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I find it off-putting when a woman wants to pay for herself on an actual date. I don't find it threatening, and It's not some male chauvinist, macho powertrip on my part, but rather (to me) I can't help but feel that it's a form of signaling disinterest by trying to distance herself by paying--like if she pays, the occasion that was initially a date retroactively becomes a platonic meal.