5 Signs It's Time To Break Up

Struggling with whether to stay or go?  Here are five research-approved signs it’s time to hop off the key, Lee, and set yourself free, new today at the Good Men Project: 

 http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/its-time-to-break-up-when-hesaid/

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[Kari greathouse]

Hi duana,
Do you recall my story about my boyfriend and I breaking up because our hobbies weren't the same and then us getting back together after a few days because I couldn't see justifying losing my best friend over simple differences? Well, very recently, all of the reasons that I initially broke up with have presented themselves to me in the form of one of my very close friends that I've known for about a decade. He and I had always had attraction for one another but he was married before and so we never got together. He has been living in the San Antonio area for a couple of years now and Everytime we hang out together I feel more and more for him and I cant break the feeling that we are now given the chance to be one together. Everything that matt isn't he is and he's also a very best friend. He tells me all the right things too. Like how he wants me to quit my current job but I should continue my physical therapy pursuit as well as develope my massage business. I'm torn. I've never had a good relationship untill matt and I've known nate through thick and thin. I don't know if what my feelings if are intuition or fear. How do I know.. and how do I respond? I know that I feel like I'm trying to decide between a person I love and a person I'm in love with. I plan to talk with nate about my values in a relationship and see where he stands. But how do I know which voice to listen to?