Dear Duana, Daniel and I are the same in just about everything, with one exception: I love him and want to marry him, and Daniel hasn’t made up his mind. We’ve been friends for a decade, and eight years ago he suffered heartbreak when his then-girlfriend dumped him to marry someone else…[He’s said he can never get over her and can’t love anyone else.] How can I make this into a lasting relationship, make him see we are perfect for each other, and get Daniel to reciprocate my love?