Wise Readers,
Research has shown that all couples—happy and not—have conflict. But there are many fights we might wish to avoid. Even so, here are at least nine fights that are worth having (and my first appearance at Redbook). Asking you to “enjoy” might be a bit strong. But these conflicts can smooth out the rest of your relationship!
http://www.redbookmag.com/life/advice/g3348/fighting-relationships-marriage-advice/